Haha, that way is just fine. But if you wanted to hold it like they do in the movies, that's just as well too. I'll still be able to take it from you.

[He moves slowly, his hand grasping hers as he turns her wrist to the side, making her arm and elbow move in a direction it shouldn't go too far in.]

If you're able to grab their wrist or hand, just twist it to the side like this. You'll be able to pull them to the ground from here, too. Go ahead and try it on me now.