...It was, [he says, thinking on how to navigate this one.]

I'll gladly tell you how and why, if you'd like. But, I'll be honest with you and let you know that you might be a little embarrassed by your actions while you were drunk. I was drunk as well, so I'm not exempt to this by any means.

[He says it earnestly. He's telling the truth, after all, though he's hoping she won't press him.]

I don't want to put you on the spot just in case it's something that you would have rather not heard.

[It's in the past, right? Right???]